The Key to Social Media Success is Just 2 Letters

I’m sitting in a restaurant in Cincinnati recently, surrounded by televisions with the sound turned down. The bartender approaches, and asks if I’d like to hear the TV. I say “sure” expecting him to saunter over to a monitor, and turn up the volume. Instead, he reaches under the bar, and pulls out a Soundog unit.

The Soundog is an ingenious device – a small, personal speaker with switching capabilities, enabling me to listen to whichever game I prefer without bothering nearby patrons.

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Happily using this handy new technology, I was struck by its utter usefulness and the fact that it neatly addressed a common (although perhaps not world-changing) problem.

Why can’t your social media program do that?

Just 2 Letters

The difference between “selling” and “helping” is only two letters, but the gap is in reality, much larger.

The best – and most effective – social media programs aren’t based on promotions and message distribution. Instead, they revolve around removing friction and uncertainty for potential or current customers. It’s about marketing sideways, not marketing head-on.

Nationwide Insurance has a terrific iPhone app that allows you to document a vehicle crash in real-time, including photos, collection of the other drivers’ insurance information, and other key details. They aren’t trying to sell you more insurance – at least not at that point – they are being helpful.

Geek Squad makes its living providing technology configuration and repair services, via BestBuy stores everywhere. But yet Geek Squad has a YouTube channel that includes hundreds of videos showing people how to do it themselves. They aren’t trying to sell you services – at least not at that point – they are being helpful.

Geek Squad Founder Robert Stephens was asked about the contradiction of a services company providing helpful videos at a conference where I spoke. He said that the reality is, their best customers are those that can do some of it themselves. If they can assist them initially, they’ll appreciate it and turn to the when they need more help.

That’s understanding the difference between selling and helping. That’s understanding that social media success is a long putt, not a tap-in. That’s measuring results on an annual basis, not a weekly basis.

That’s what you should be doing.

Social Media Success = Find a Way to Remove Friction

Start today by conducting a Helpfulness Audit for your company. Talk to your customer service department, or survey your customers and document the top 10 problems that customers have with your product or service. Then, strategize ways you could make those problems disappear by providing better content (as with Geek Squad), faster response (as with Nationwide), or better access to help (as many companies are doing by launching online customer support communities using Get Satisfaction or other systems).

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I'd never thought about this statement before: "The difference between selling and helping is only two letters, but the gap is in reality, much larger." It's so true! When you believe in what you do and are able to help people with your service offerings and products, sales will happen. Social media allows an avenue to show your business's expertise, share free information and develop relationships. Nice post, Jay.

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Great article, Jay! And this thread in addition offers some stellar advice. The social media sphere is just buzzing as a marketing plane these days which makes it all the more necessary for people to clear the air as to what good, progressive practices are. It's great that people can sign on and get connected to the content they need for a product, and knowing it is there is basically half the selling point, so I certainly agree with your previous comment regarding usefullness and trust.

For those angling to get into the social media sphere, or even those who have lagged on joining the *online* sphere (heaven forbid, I mean it is 2k10 peoples...) there are other options for building and then gauging good online content. MindTouch 2010's curation analytics provide both immediate and long-term feedback as to whether consumers are finding the information they want online, and they give a glimpse into the customer behavior on your site, allowing you conform to their needs and truly "let them eat cake"-- this is marketing in the most side-ways fashion I can imagine!

This article gives a great description of MindTouch 2010, it's worth taking a peek: http://www.cmswire.com/cms/enterprise-20/mindtouch...

Cheers,
Liz

Thanks very much. The future of marketing is to not market.

I'd never thought about this statement before: "The difference between “selling” and “helping” is only two letters, but the gap is in reality, much larger." It's so true! When you believe in what you do and are able to help people with your service offerings and products, sales will happen. Social media allows an avenue to show your business's expertise, share free information and develop relationships. Nice post, Jay.

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What a guru at avoiding conflict. Dale Carnegie technique applied masterfully. That´s public relations on action. Thanks for the article jay. By the way I would add TEACH to the HELP word. U know what am sayin.

Excellent advice and something that definitely does expand beyond social media as Mr. Turnbull noted. In my business, I often repeat the mantra "serve first, sell second." To date it has proven to be successful.

Agree to that. Jay did great in this article!

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Yeah, but since this is a social media blog, I tend to look at stuff through that prism. But you're entirely correct. Thanks for the comment Andrew.

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I think you're limiting yourself too much by saying it's the key to social media success which is popular and shiny and new.

It's the key to all kinds of success IMO.

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This is the great blog, I'm reading them for a while, thanks for the new posts!

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But let us not forget or underestimate the importance of marketing science. That is, for every corporate action (ie. "helpful tip") there should be a reaction (a customer takes a step closer to a sale or lead). I suggest that "being helpful" in hopes of earning a customer's good will is not enough. Now I know it is for social media gurus but for me it's not. My research focuses on organizations that align customer behavior with their corporate actions -- with their actions not just fostering but ultimately inducing a needed behavior (a sale or lead). I hope this makes sense. I'm trying to draw distinction between "being helpful" and assuming the rest and "being helpful but also providing ethical bribes that push customers down the sales funnel."

Big difference IMO -- in that the marketer assumes accountability for the time investment.

The Key to Social Media Success is Just 2 Letters http://bit.ly/9ZNf8d ^ZANE: amazing!

Hi Jay great post. Thanks.
I agree, helping works, selling doesn't. But what about entertaining?
Are we sayng that the time for vial videos, viral games and facebook applications is over?

Success lays in 'helping' not 'selling' your customers. http://bit.ly/bgCraZ

This is, as jmctigue puts it, indeed "dead-on". The most important part of business and customer service is the actual service aspect. If you provide quality, you get the quantity you are looking for. Customers need to know that services are reliable and not out to rob them, but actually provide quality service when needed.

That TV audio box is amazing by the way! I am usually one of the patrons of a restaurant or bar that can't stand when something on the tv is too loud, even if I am watching it.

You might also enjoy this interview series of social media experts:
http://www.ourblook.com/topic/social_media.html

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